I know, I know - I'm supposed to be on a blogging vacation.Well, I just can't help myself. I have 20 minutes left in my lunch break, and instead of knocking out my latest Business Watch column, all I can think about is this post that's been swirling around in my mind.
I'm telling you - blogging = crack.
Anyways, today is my friend/boss Michael's 30th birthday. (See, told you you'd end up in the blog!) For a while now, he's been lamenting turning the big 3-0, mourning how that makes him infinitely older than he was a day ago.
I laugh, but aging has been on my mind a lot lately - see, I'm precisely four years and three days younger than Michael, which means that my 26th birthday is rolling around in - yay, you can count! - three days.
I don't know why, but 26 just seems so... well... adult.
At 25, you're really recognized as a bonafide adult - able to rent a car without ridiculously exorbitant fees, paying cheaper car insurance (well, if you started driving at 16, which I didn't - so much for that perk!), and you are officially kicked off any parents' insurance and such (if you were on them in the first place).
For whatever reason, though, 26 sounds so much more mature. By the age of 26, I figured I'd be a "real" adult - or, at least, that I'd feel like it a little more. I once asked my septugenarian grandmother if you ever hit a point in life where you feel "grown up" a few years ago, though - and she said no, you don't. So much for that idea!
Still - it blows me away when I realize that I've been out of college for 3 1/2 years. That I've had a professional career for that long. That my mother had a 5 year old and a 3 year old by this age. That my 10-year high school reunion is a mere two years away (need any help planning, Aubrey?), and that I've been friends with my high school besties for half my life now. Craziness!
But, that being said, why is getting older such a bad thing? I guess some people see it as a loss of youth and beauty. That doesn't worry me so much as the loss of opportunities, wondering if I misstepped somewhere along the path. Then again, I think there's always room to learn and grow from our hiccups, and I know that I'm sure glad I've aged and grown from the person I was 5, 10 years ago.
I don't know why aging looked down upon so much in our society, anyways. It's so frowned upon, spawing a multimillion (multibillion?) dollar industry to erase all signs of aging. The elderly are put out to pasture, so often disregarded as out of step instead of honored for the steps they've traversed over the years. Age leads to wisdom, maturity and perspective. I am so, so grateful to be able to glean from the life experience (and mistakes) of my parents, my grandmother, my leaders.
So, here's to getting older. Grumbling won't stop the clock - and I'd rather wrinkle my face with laugh lines, not frown lines. :)P.S. - Good news! I just heard from my taxpayer advocate that I did, indeed, win my year-long battle with the IRS, and I'll soon get back my $204 plus interest. Yippee!!! I feel so empowered - it's like, if you can beat the IRS, you can beat anything, y'know?








































